Jii Filani

I write things I feel and reflect on.

4 essays published

Published Essays

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When Why Becomes How

One question everyone asks themselves in private is, “Why is this happening to me?” We ask that question because we are trying to make sense of an unfortunate situation we have found ourselves in. We also ask because somewhere inside us, we believe we may have done enough good to be spared from what feels like bad fortune.

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Why I Write This Down

I wanted to write down my thoughts, experiences, and what’s happening around me. I wanted to place them beside the thoughts and experiences of others, to see whether we were living through the same patterns in different forms.

JJii FilaniMarch 15, 20261 min readcommunitywritingtoday
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The Questions We Stopped Asking

What happens to success when no one can see it? If we remove the urge—and the platforms—that let us display wealth, would we still chase money the same way? This reflection examines how social proof, metrics, and performative success have reshaped our psychology, and argues that we may need to return to a simpler habit: asking better questions about purpose, value, and what truly improves human lives.

JJii FilaniFebruary 26, 20262 min readsocial proofsuccesswealth